Happiness - The State of Mind and Places in Time

How do we define happiness? Is it a state of mind or a place in time? Is it Heaven? Heaven is a place on Earth. Turns out its the Local Pub by the sounds of it. Your Local Bar Man may not be Ted Danson, but as long as he is plying you with drinks you should be happy. Are we happy, Garvin wants to be in a continual state of happiness, George needs to define what makes him happy, being in the moment the now..he likes to ride the wave of emotion, he is happy when he is up and sad when he is down. George wants to set fire to things, he calls it spreading the joy, the insurance companies and fire services won't see it that way, but as long as George is happy burning things thats ok. Will Garvin explode with happiness before he is content, George wants Garvin to share so they can both be happyish. Garvin thinks if everybody is happy society will fall apart and he will be the next in the firing line just like in star trek, his place is to be the unknown crew member with a predestined short appearance. George points out to Garvin if he Listens he might Hear Something and Learn Something. Perception of Greener Fields is in a lot of cases an illusion, Be happy in your skin as someone elses might be a lot more uncomfortable than it looks at first glance. George says Material things aren't as Real as some immaterial things such as Relationships. Garvin's Daughter found his childhood things or Treasure, now the family are armed to the teeth so intruders beware if you go calling to the Burke House Hold. Happiness is not a Cake to Slice up and Share, it is not that easy to solve others problems, but slice up some of your time to lend a listening ear. Garvin loves to try to solve other people's problems without the facts, it makes for easier thinking on his part. Complexity is not that simple so he tries to steer clear of that, after all its not his problem and if he starts helping out it might just end up being his, better to wallow in his own happiness and problems that might bring or he may already have and be blissfully unaware of, ah ignorance is true bliss. You have to Protect yourself from Other Peoples Problems, however wouldn't it be great to go Kick Ass for a time, be a Knight in shining Armour and rescue family and friends out of the mire of their personal problems and unwanted unhappiness. Garvin wants them to get their dancing shoes on and join him on his personal crusade along the yellow brick road to their joint Oz's. Out of Sight out of mind and you don't have to buy them a pint, until they turn back up again 10 years later, the three dancing divas of 1985 are now all married with children but still looking for the Disco of Happiness. The Lads see tragedy as a gentle reminder of their mortality, so they need to be making hay while the sun shines or more to the point while they are still breathing as it is only a matter of time before the game is up, they are throwing dice like there is no tomorrow and one day they will be right. If Garvin is Happy everyone else must be, His Life and Wife is sitting in the other room watching Netflix, he needs to make sure everyone else is happy also. The Lads would love to more time, they have been borrowing it, moving it around, using it up but there just doesn't seem to be enough of it, they think wouldn't it be great to make it, who knew it was the one product they can't seem to find the raw materials for on the open market. They decide to call it a day, we see them walking off into the distance singing a little ditty "Don't Worry Be Happy". #SelfCoaching #BusinessCoaching #MediaCoaching